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iBT TOEFL Speaking Topic 1.2: Family member or friend...?

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2. Do you prefer to talk to a family member about a personal problem, or one of your friends? Give reasons and examples to support your preference.

If you have a microphone and would like to try recording your answer to this iBT TOEFL question, click here.

Best of luck!

~ Jason

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Scores and quick comments for the people who have responded to this task so far:

http://www.chinswing.com/pages/discussion.aspx?id=570f5201-4108-46a5-8da9-e051968c5a4a 

[002] - Score = 3.0 (Generally a good response, very well organized, but the second reason given was a little unclear and brief, and delivery needs a little improvement as well)

[003] - Score = 3.0 (Quite an articulate response, with a strong personal example, but answer needs clearer reasons - more than one - that are organized and developed well)

[004] - Score = 2.0 (Too general, with not enough organization or ideas, specific reasons need to be given which are then supported in detail - also watch pronunciation/delivery, sometimes hard to understand)

[005] - Score = 2.5 (The beginnings of a good response - I certainly like the careful, clear delivery - but the reasons are a little too vague and not supported with enough detail or examples)

 

~ Jason

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I recently recorded some new lectures explaining how to understand and respond to the six different iBT speaking questions. You can access them at this link here:

 

 

I hope you find the tips useful!

~ Jason

 

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More scores and quick comments for the people who have responded to this task so far:

 

[007] - Score = 3.0 (Generally a good response, very well organized, but the second reason given was a little unclear and brief - because of too much time spent elaborating on the first reason)

[008] - Score = 2.5 (Well organized, but not enough development and exemplification for the reasons - stick to two main reasons and give more detail and examples)

[009] - Score = 1.0 (Potentially off-topic, and no clear reasons why the choice of family is preferable to a friend, delivery needs a lot of improvement - hard to understand; be careful of the 45 second time limit!)

[010] - Score = 2.0 (The choice is not supported with any clear examples to support it, making the response vague and unconvincing, despite some attempts at organization and some impressive language use)

[011] - Score = 3.0 (Good organization, delivery and language use, but the example given doesn't support the reasons given in a totally convincing way, or show how the choice is preferable to the other option)

 

~ Jason

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well, in my opinion, i'd prefer to talk with my friends about my personal problems. there are several reasons. First of all, there are some private things such as my love or anything else which should be kept as a secret to my parents. I would be embarrassed if in any case they knew it. In addition, parents are always very nervous and worried about me. They are expecting too much from me, and I would not like to let them down. those private problems would lead to their worries and even my sorry to them. Last by not least, I do not need to take any resbilities if I tell my friends my personal problems. I would like to share my feelings with them. They always give me some suggestions to help me out.

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More scores and quick comments for the people who have responded to this task so far:

[013] - Score = 2.5 (Good attempt, but the reasons don't appear to have any specific organization or support through examples; pronunciation needs work as some parts very difficult to understand; 12 secs over limit)

[014] - Score = 2.5 (Speaking has a lot of potential in terms of fluency, delivery and language use, but the response is 22 seconds over the limit; the supporting examples were too long and restricted the chance to answer the question efficiently within the set time limit)

[015] - Score = 1.5 (Far too hesitant and vague, no real points made in support of preference in terms of detail and examples, well over the time limit)

[016] - Score = 2.5 (Well delivered and generally well organized, but really lacking in detail or supporting examples; 36 seconds over the time limit!)

[017] - Score = 4.0 (Great response, very fluent and clear, excellent organization and support of main reasons - very natural and convincing, spot on with time use)

[018] - Score = 3.0 ~ 3.5 (Good response, with great delivery and super organization, but limited use of real convincing examples to back up any of the reasons given)

[019] - Score = 3.0 (Similar to [018] above, but with more hampered delivery/pronunciation; the fluency, language use and organization is great, but no solid examples backing up any of the main reasons given)

[020] - Score = 2.5 (Good delivery and language use, but reasons could perhaps be applied to either of the preferences, and none of them were backed up with any sort of real example)

[021] - Score = 1.0 ~ 1.5 (No real preference given, reasons vague and unsupported with solid examples, delivery sometimes very hard to understand; 24 seconds over the time limit allowed)

[022] - Score = 3.0 (The makings of a very good answer, great delivery and language use, excellent organization and supporting detail; just no convincing examples given)

[023] - Score = 4.0 (Great response, very fluent and clear, well organized and supported with detail, and a great example at the end to illustrate your point)

[024] - Score = 2.5 (Made a good start, good organization and attempt at elaboration, but not enough examples and time limit expired right in the middle of trying to introduce another reason)

[025] - Score = 2.5 (Good organization, but the reasons are not given in enough detail or with supporting examples, and delivery needs some work to ensure clarity of pronunciation)

 

~ Jason

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Hi Jason,

Thanx for the reply. I did my exam. And I this site was most useful for me in my speaking and writing. I did very bad in my reading and listening. I thought them that they would be very easy but they found to be very difficult than any others. Guys, Prepare for reading and listening also like others.

Anyway thanx Jason.

Sony

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Good to hear from you, Sony. I'm glad to hear this site was helpful to you.

You make a good point in advising people to prepare for the reading and listening sections as well. They're certainly no walk in the park (as in, not easy).

Eventually I hope to have some reading and listening practice materials up here in the forum, but it's going to take a while. They're extremely difficult and time consuming to prepare (because I always write my own original materials and don't copy or distribute materials ~ part of being a responsible author :-), but hopefully at some stage, once I have funding to work on something like this full time, I can look at covering all four sections of the TOEFL.

Hope your score turns out okay!

~ Jason

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Hi Jason .. This is Girly.The UrL's that you sent me was very useful so I thought of becoming a member of this group and improve my skills.I want to immediately involve in this discussion so here is my reply to the above discussion.

According to me, most often it depends on the sort of problem and sort of situation prevailing.Sometimes it may be family members or it may be friends to whom we share.There can be situation where the problem is something about family and you don't want share it with some third person, so it would be some family member to whom you share,who is very close to you and you think he/she is the right person to trust.

Secondly,there can be some problem where you can't share with family because you think they may not understand or you might be staying away from them in hostel and you want to share your problem than, it would be definitely your best friend to whom you would be sharing.

So,I would conclude that it would be both to whom we share based on situations.

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Access all 6 speaking tasks to create a complete iBT TOEFL speaking test:

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More scores and quick comments for the people who have responded to this task so far:

http://www.chinswing.com/pages/discussion.aspx?id=570f5201-4108-46a5-8da9-e051968c5a4a 

[027] - Score = 2.5 (Good attempt, but only one real reason given, and not clear how it supports one preference over the other)

[028] - Score = 3.5 ~ 4.0 (Quite a strong response ~ excellent organization, language use and delivery, reason could have been explained better, but may get you through for a perfect score)

[029] - Score = 3.5 (Good response, just a little too rushed - affecting delivery - and perhaps could have done with a more explicit example)

[030] - Score = 3.0 (Generally a very good, well delivered and well expressed response, but lacks any convincing example to back up the preference)

[031] - Score = 4.0 (Great response, very fluent and clear, excellent organization and support of main reasons - very natural and convincing, spot on with time use)

[032] - Score = 3.0 (Good response, but probably needs clearer exemplification to make the selection more convincing)

[033] - Score = 3.0 (Similar issues with response [032] above)

[034] - Score = 3.0 (Similar issues with response [032] above)

[035] - Score = 2.0 (Half the time limit lost with somewhat off-task explanation, hence reasons are not supported well at all, with no exemplification at all)

[036] - Score = 4.0 (Great response, very clear and fluent, excellent language use, perfect example to support preference and reasons given)  

 

~ Jason

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Hi Jason,
Could you please rate my response[084] for this topic.
i need to get 26 in speaking.
Thankyou

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I prefer to talk to my friends about a personal problem. I don’t have any sibling so if I want to talk to my family, I have to talk to my parents and that is the last thing I want to do. I and my parents have so different opinion. If I tell them about my problem, we’ll end up arguing each other. I don’t want that. On the other hand, my friends are always supportive and give good advice kindly. When I was thinking about my future as a teacher, my parents and I were arguing every day. But my friends didn’t react like that. They told me about merits and demerits. It was really helpful. It’s only about my own experience but that’s why I think it’s better to talk to friends about a personal problem.

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Dear Jason,

If only I could have found out this wonderful forum much earlier, because there are only 5 days left until my TOEFLiBT test date. I will try my best to adhere to your tips and tricks in the very last preparation period of mine.

I have recorded and uploaded the two first responses on Chinswing. I hope you can score and comment on them before my test date on Feb 14. Thanks so much in advance!

Best regards,
Ha

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hi other questions to answer. Please record your replies so we can compare our answers.

1) Some people believe that students should immediately go on to college after completing high school. Others believe that students should take a year off between high school completion and startign college. Which approach do you think is better for students interested in getting a college degree? Include details adn examples in your explanation.

2) Some students would like to have a long vacation during the academic year. Other students would like to have several shorter vacations during the academic year. What is your preference and why? Include details and examples in your explanation.

Good luck

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Talking about personal problems I think we should divide them by their topic. There are some issue which I would definetely discuss only with my family member and to be more precise I'd talk to my Mother. Of course it is very good to have loyal friends who are ready to liste to your problem and may be even give support and valuable advice. For instance, if we are talking about problems with boyfriend or girlfriend then it is not easy to talk about with Mom. It is easier to discuss it with a close friend, a representative of your generation. He or she can listen to you, share his/her own thoughts, may be tell about similar situation which he/she experienced.
And from the other hand, if I want to discuss my future plans with someone I'd prefer to share my thought with my Mom. I know that she can also express her point of view from the experiences she had in her life and of course she would only the best for me to happen. I'd also choose her instead of a friend if I want to tell about any health problems that could happen especially taking into consideration her medical background.
Finally, it is sometimes very important to be able to talk with someone about personal problems and its always good to know you have a very right person to do so with your family or your closest friend.

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Personally, I'd prefer to approach my close friends about my personal problems first for few reasons: First of all, I am more comfortable and confident to express my personal problem to my best friend. For example, when I got pregnant unexpectedly, I believe that would be a sensistive issue to our family, so first thing that come across to my mind, is to confide it to my close friend.
Another reason, you will get some good advise from your friend and you;ll get their sympathy first unlike if you will gi direct to your parents, you;ll be embarass by their insults.For example, you are asking an advise to your friend about having a boyfriend in an early age, so you tend to open it personally to one of your friends because it simply establish confidence before telling it to your family members. These are the few reasons why I need to approach first to my close friend regarding my personal problem.

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Personally, I prefer to talk my personal problem to my family.

To start with, bringing conversation with my  mom or dad about my problem situation,  it could help me to provide precise solution or option to my problem.  In my personal experience, I have difficulty choosing my career, whether to be a nurse or to be am engineer . because of their expertise advising and caring the future of my career.  they help me to weigh and come up with the good solution of my problem.

Another reason,   my family can be trusted, whatever topic or secret I could share with them. I'm sure to myself that I could be safe and undoubtedly they will not tell my secret to anybody or  out side to my family.

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